Thursday, January 15, 2009

Ladies & Gentlemen

Alrite yall. After being told so many times that I need to write a book... I'm writing a book. To sum it up, it's a motivational/inspirational/ comical/ get your mind right book for women. At the end there will be poetry, for those in need of something to relate to at certain times in life.

Men please don't stop reading and run away lol, I'ma need your help too. Just hold on a minute pretty please :)

Ladies, I'd like to know:

What do you love most about being a woman? Least?
What is the most valuable lesson you've learned about life so far?
Any favorite quotes or words of advice?

Gentlemen, I'm also dedicating a chapter to you :) So, I'd like to know:

What do you like most in a woman? Least?
What is the hardest thing about being a man?
How do you let a female know you're not interested? (it could be verbally or non-verbally)

The reason I'm throwing in a chapter about men is because I'm tired of bitches making the wrong decisions and assumptions about men and I'd like to break it down and set the record straight.

Because I'm a fair person and that's what I do son.

Anyone helping me on this will receive honorable mention in the book. Not like it's gonna make the New York Times Best Seller List (never know tho lol) but still, I give credit where credit is due.

Tell a friend to tell a friend, the more feedback the better. Thank you in advance!

*smooches*

P.S. Any random sex talk is welcome (and encouraged) also. Hey, you knew THAT was coming :)

5 comments:

Princess Katrina said...

nice blog!

karrie b. said...

periods. hate em. and hate double standards. butttt i do love being a part of the stronger and smarter species.

i hate that eve was blamed for adam's downfall for ALLEGEDLY making him eat the forbidden fruit. i could go on and on but i wont, so ill leave it @ that.

-kb

Yves said...

What do I like most in a woman?
Good sense of humor, goal oriented, knows when to shut up.

Least?
Mood swings, expecting a guy to know what they're thinking/feeling instead of just saying it outright, not knowing what they want or changing their minds.

What is the hardest thing about being a man?
Self control/knowing to walk away when women say/do things they shouldnt

How do you let a female know you're not interested?
I usually ask hypothetical questions and if I like the answer, I let them know it wasn't hypothetical

vexedmentals said...

other than being all girly & shit, i guess what i love most about being a woman is the fact that women are pretty much more ambitious. we just have that drive. for the sole fact that a lot of shit comes easy for men - women too, but its a huge difference.

least thing i like about being a woman, well personally, is how emotional i get. mainly over shit i shouldnt get emotional about. i guess not being able to control my emotions as good as a guy can. they got that 1-up on us.

um & the most valuable lesson is to know when to pick my battles. & when to just let shit go. i have a problem with putting stuff off which always seems to bite me in the ass. so i guess i should start living in the now instead of me always doing shit later on. . . when it could be too late.

i'll get back to you on the quotes/advice lol.

J said...

I love being a mother. I think it's the most beautiful thing a woman can experience. Has to be what I love most about being a woman. The ability to experience what Motherhood feels like. The least.. I hate that society, at times, don't consider us equal to men. Don't them fools know we can do anything a man can do, better, AND in heels? :)

Most valuable lesson.. Hmm. Never put your family on the back burner.. At the end of the day, through good or bad, they will be the only ones standing by your side helping you when you're in a time of need. I don't mean financially.. I mean emotionally, Mentally. I love my family to death and when I was young and dumb, I took them for granted. Never again..

My favorite quote is this one. "Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections" I think about this quote every morning when I wake. Nothing in life is perfect.. You have to decide what is worth the challenge. :) ♥